Breaking News from Jessica Zellers
You’ve read the column. Now see the act.
“He Reads/She Reads� columnists Kaite Mediatore Stover and David Wright have taken their show on the road for a one-time only performance.
Your humble blogger would like to take this opportunity to reassure Kaite that the dress did not, in fact, make her butt look big. The dress looked very nice on Ms. Stover, though it was too flowery for my personal tastes.
Sorry. I’m getting distracted.
Jane, you ignorant slut…
Sorry, sorry. Here we go, really:
Kaite and David write the “He Reads/She Reads� column for Booklist. This session was a development of that column. David kicked things off with the manly perspective. Have I mentioned that the man is insane? He already did a program today. Ye gods.
Those folks in the audience who showed up hoping for scholarly research on gender and literacy soon realized that they were in entirely the wrong session. The discussion was funny and casual and irreverent. Still though, a few legitimate findings were shared from the get-go:
Men read less than women
Men value reading less than women do
Men read less fiction and “literature� than women do
Men read more factual and informational stuff than women do
Men read magazines, like women, but read more newspapers than women do
Men read more graphic novels and comics than women do
Men still read more SF than women do
Men don’t really want to read books about women, or by them
Men have narrower tastes than women, and possibly deeper
Men are completists and collectors
Men like reading about stuff that interests them, like sports, hobbies, etc.
Men don’t really want to talk about what they read.
(“Men don’t really want to talk, period,� wise-cracked this blogger.)
Then David showed some slides of pseudo-romance covers. I never did figure out how they were germane to the presentation, but they were hilarious.
“Men like romances where men fight some people, get paid in nookie, and then move on,� said David. “We call these Westerns.�
Westerns are about, ahem, “fightin’-n-fornicatin’.� Louis L’Amour is all well and good, but he doesn’t have enough nookie for real guys. What men really want are the series Westerns, with authors such as William W. Johnstone, Terry C. Johnstone, Richard S. Wheeler, and Matt Braun. Forget the literary Western stuff.
Then Kaite took a turn, with info that complemented David’s findings:
Women read more than men do.
Women value reading more than men do.
Women read more fiction and literature than men do.
Women read less factual and informative books than men do.
Women read magazines and newspapers.
Women like reading books about women, men, families, tragedy, comedy, history, etc., and they don’t care who wrote the book.
Women have very broad tastes and will tolerate experimental fiction a little more than men will.
Women enjoy talking about what they read.
Women will stick with a book longer than men will, hoping it gets better.
(“Like with relationships,� quipped this blogger.)
Women like to read romance, Kaite said. It is escapist literature for us. It is the biblio equivalent of a piece of fudge. It’s our version of a night of peace and quiet. We like chick lit, too. It’s fun and frothy, with a lot of heart, hope, and humor.
But sometimes we want to spice it up with something more than hearts and flowers. In that case, try Blood Music, about a woman who realizes that the publicity about a serial killer sounds awfully like they’re describing her husband. Another good choice is Night Woman, about a woman who’s been writing critically acclaimed novels, but whose husband has been getting the credit; what happens when the husband dies? Or try Jodi Picoult for books with substance.
We like these deep, meaty books, said Kaite. We like to read about nutty families and relationships, with a healthy dose of maternal sacrifice, teenage angst, and dysfunction.
Well and good, said David, but when men are stressed, we do not curl up by a fire with Rosamunde Pilcher and talk through our problems. We’d rather think about guns and killing things. Don Pendleton’s Executioner series, for instance, or other series of similar ilk, with titles like (I’m not making this up) The Enforcer, The Expeditor, and The Penetrator. Not enough libraries buy these. You don’t even have to catalog them. Just keep a collection.
Superheroes are still popular with men, said David, as well as mysteries, especially older crime fiction. Try the Parker books by Richard Stark, about a professional thief. Ever had a guy patron who had James Patterson in his hand, saying “I dunno, it’s just too slow?� Parker’s for that guy.
The age of the hard-boiled men’s paperback age is over, and it’s dearly missed, but the Hard Case Crime series (featuring authors such as Lawrence Block) is bringing back the lurid cover. Woohoo! And Ian Fleming’s books have been re-released with some delightfully smutty, misogynistic covers.
Then we got to hear from Kaite again, with her slant on graphic novels. She resisted them for a long team because it seemed that all of them were either superheroes or dorky dweeby guys. All the women had huge breasts, “positively pneumatic.�
“I don’t know any woman who can face her problems in a thong and a metal bikini top,� said Kaite. Me neither.
But none of the women in the graphic novels Kaite finally selected are wearing thongs (or if they are, we don’t know about it). There’s some substance to go along with the Zap! Bam! Pow! scene.
For instance, there’s Smoke and Guns, about dueling cigarette empires in New York. The women were constantly blowing up stuff and seeking revenge, while smoking cigarettes and maintaining perfect makeup. It’s a completely escapist, blow-em-up, woman-centric book.
Or try Fun Home, by Alison Bechdel, a memoir of growing up in a funeral home, and about the secret life of her father.
[Aside from the blogger: Yes, please try Fun Home. This is the most cerebral, intellectually challenging book I’ve read in years. It’ll make you feel smarter and cooler.]
Or there’s Cancer Vixen, by Marisa Acocella Marchetto, a nonfiction chick lit memoir. It’s witty, with lots of fashion and shoes.
Or switch tracks completely. Why not try sports? Christine Brennan wrote Edge of Glory: The Inside Story of the Quest for Figure Skating’s Olympic Gold Medals, as well as Inside Edge: A Revealing Journey into the Secret World of Figure Skating. There are thoughtful analyses of this cutthroat sport. The uniforms might be made of sequins but these athletes are as tough as any hockey players. Besides, everyone knows that women love ice skating. While you’re at it, give them Joan Ryan’s Little Girls in Pretty Boxes: The Making and Breaking of Elite Gymnasts and Figure Skaters. Too girly? Then try Nanci Kincaid’s novelization of football, told from the point of view of many different women. The title is, ahem, Balls: A Novel.
Then David came back for a bit, launching us right into a talk about men and machines. There’s Delilah, by Marcus Goodrich, or Heinlein’s Starship Troopers, or Wasp, by Eric Frank Russell. Or then again there’s Catapult: Harry and I Build a Siege Weapon, by Jim Paul.
Men also like fantasy, but none of the girly feminist crap like Marion Zimmer Bradley. For the exact opposite of The Mists of Avalon, read The Conquering Sword of Conan, by Robert E. Howard.
Bear in mind, too, that guys love maps, and atlases, and especially historical atlases. These shouldn’t just be reference books. Men want to take them home and pore over them.
Another great male genre is Arctic exploration, including books such as The Worst Journey in the World, by Apsley Cherry-Garrard, and Touching the Void, by Joe Simpson. Then you’ve got misadventure books, such as Redmond O’Hanlon’s Trawler, or anything by Richard Marcinko, who is testosterone squared.
Eh, let’s talk about girl stuff again, said Kaite. Look at Color Stories: Behind the Scenes of America’s Billion-Dollar Beauty Industry, by Mary Lisa Gavenas, or Paco Underhill’s Why We Buy: The Science of Shopping. These books present science and social commentary in an accessible way.
Of course there are books about cooking and crafts to consider. Hidden Kitchens gives us history, geography, philosophy, and some lore along with those recipes, and Debbie Stoller is starting a revolution one stitch at a time with Stitch N Bitch.
(Note from the blogger: Debbie Stoller rocks. It doesn’t matter if you can knit or crochet. That’s not the point.)
And finally, said Kaite, we women like to read about working. There are books about traditional women’s jobs, such as Waiting: The True Confessions of a Waitress, by Debra Ginsberg, and Other People’s Dirt: A Housecleaner’s Adventures from Cape Cod to Kyoto, by Louise Rafkin. Or, of course, Brothel: Mustang Ranch and Its Women, by Alexa Albert. There are also books about women in non-traditional jobs, such as Caroline Paul’s Fighting Fire.
The session more or less ended here, with questions that followed. It left me feeling a little bit alarmed. Every book David talked about sounded really cool to me, whereas nearly every book Kaite described sounded awful. Because of this program I’m having a gender identity crisis. Thanks, Kaite and David. Thanks a bunch.
The Q&A session is described below. Not everything is transcribed verbatim, but the spirit of the questions is preserved.
Question from audience: Do you worry about stereotyping in the columns?
Kaite: Yes. I try to avoid whiny, try to avoid man-bashing. I try to find worthwhile ways for women and men to pass their time. I try to find things you might not have heard about, books that maybe need a second chance at life.
David: I don’t avoid stereotypes. I propagate them. I take a light approach to it. I embrace the stereotypes. I know that there are plenty of very literate men who aren’t going to be interested… but there aren’t any columns out there for the regular men readers. That’s my ideal audience.
Question from audience: Most of what you’re saying is entertaining, but it has real consequences. Women in my library control most of the collection decisions. A lot of books for men are (unintentionally) being left out.
David: Yeah. We think about race and culture and all that; we need to think about men, too. If you’re getting Harlequins, you should get male adventure series. And then you need to market them.
Question from audience: Humor me and cross up the stereotypes. What do you want to confess?
Kaite: I love those lost-in-the-wilderness books, and books about extreme sports, and about disasters. I loved Into Thin Air. In a nutshell, I like the books where the guys get lost and it’s crazy. I read a lot of sports fiction and nonfiction.
David: I am more of a fiction reader than a nonfiction reader. Does that count? That’s not typically guy. I hear women complain all the time, “Oh, my husband just reads nonfiction, I can’t get him to read a novel.�
But I’m a readers’ advisor so I make a point of reading outside my comfort zone. I have read romance novels. It really was excruciating for me. It was really hard for me to get through.
[Blogger note: You should have seen his face. Looked like he’d swallowed a lemon.]
I had to read a lot of Zane recently. You know, it’s easier just to look at pictures.
Question from audience: I have a book club comprising men and women. They rely on me to help them select their books. Do you have any recommendations?
David: Do a mix of fiction and nonfiction. Read The Ha-Ha, by Dave King. It’s a book about war and violence, but also about communication and relationships. Or read The Grace That Keeps This World by someone… It’s set in the Adirondacks. It’s about a man and his sons, beautifully written.
Kaite: Read Everything Changes, by Jonathan Tropper. It has similar themes as to what David mentioned, but it’s more accessible and lighter. Or read American Shaolin by Matt Somebody. It’s a guy book, about an American man who wants to be a kung fu master like in the movies, so he moves to China, and he becomes a Shaolin master. It’s got sports, it’s got spirituality, it’s got a very fast pace, exploration of culture, humor.
David.: How about Golden Spruce? Kinda like The Perfect Storm, a compelling read for almost anyone who picks it up.
Question from audience: All the guys are in nonfiction. Many of them come in and they have a circuit. They get the newspaper, the stock tables, US News and World Report. Then they leave. How to we convince them to look at a book?
Kaite: Put stuff in their way. Leave some stuff on their tables. Be a little surreptitious about what you’re going to push.
David: I agree, it’s about marketing. And that’s great and it’s important. But, if in the final analysis, reading for these guys means factual business stuff… embrace that. It’s no more of a problem than your women who just read romances. If that’s what they do then that’s what they do.
Question from audience: How do you approach readers?
David: The fiction collection I have is bigger than many of the libraries you work in. We have to stalk readers. I do go up to people to see if I can help them. “Are you finding what you need?� or even “Hey, how’s it going,� especially if it’s a guy. Never ask guys if they need help. They’ll never admit it.
People don’t come to a library knowing they can get reference, let alone RA. You can’t sit back and do it. Seventy-five percent of the interactions I get are the ones I deliberately start. And do displays. And have an armload of books as a prop, so it doesn’t look like you came over specifically to creepily talk to them.
Kaite: We do some roving. I let them know that I’m in the vicinity. I do approach an awful lot of our patrons, though, like David, I avoid “Can I help you?� because I’m not trying to sell clothes. That seems to work very well, having a non-confrontational demeanor.
Question from audience: I was a bookseller for eight years before we went to library school. I had a lot of male customers who bought a lot of books, yet I find I can hardly move SF at our library. Do you think that men are more likely to buy books, rather than come to the library?
Audience answer: if it’s a series, yeah, people would rather buy it.
And that’s all from me, folks, for this conference, anyways. Now I have to go and seriously contemplate what it means to have a woman’s body and a man’s reading tastes.









